How to be a Swinger can seem like one of those silly questions asked in some swinger club where people think they would learn the tricks of the trade if only they could afford a membership. Unfortunately for us non-swingers, there aren’t any Swinger Clubs or exotic locations to visit in Phuket to learn how to be a swinger. Well, actually, that kind of behavior is highly frowned upon or illegal here so that’s another topic. Nevertheless, if you’re looking for information on how to be a swinger here are some of the things you might want to consider before joining the membership clubs.
First of all, you need to understand the difference between swinging and pimping. Swingers, as swinger couples are called, are not looking for a threesome, they are swinging and their primary goal is to have multiple partners. While most men and women in the swinging community are open and honest with their partners about what they are seeking, there are some who hide or at least pretend not to be interested in pursuing a certain partner. To avoid being scammed, it’s important that you buy reputable, honest and open swinging advice from professionals who know the ropes.
How to be a swinger doesn’t mean that you don’t like sex. On the contrary, swinging is all about having lots of fun while making your partner enjoy every minute of it. Swingers, as swinger couples are also known, believe that sex isn’t the main reason to make love, but it certainly helps along the way. Some of the activities that swingers typically engage in include dogging (the act of “spanking” your partner to feel pleasure) and swinger parties (celebrating the fact that you and your partner are swinging together).
If you are thinking about planning a swinger party, the first step would be to search for a dogging club or a local swingers club. Once you have found one, it’s time to start doing some research. Start looking for clubs that are near your area or that have a good reputation. If you want to plan a swinger party, the next step is to look for a good venue. You can either pay a private property owner to allow you to hold your event on his property, renting space in his backyard or putting together a dogging and swinging singles get-together in his garage.
Once you’ve found a place to host your event, it’s time to pick out your costumes. Many students have an easier time hitting the club than they do with their campus parties, so dress up in your campus’s Alma mater colors – bright white and black, the school’s colors. Other doggies are usually dressed in dark colors such as black, navy blue, gray, or get the newest trend and dress up in white. Hawaiian shirts and floral dresses will also blend well in your party.
For the theme, choose something that has a lot of appeal to women. For example, many students who are into threesomes and swinging fantasies opt for the classic swinger flicks “Pun intended” and “Dangerous” as they’ll be sure to have their classmates and friends watching. Other popular themes are “Swinging Style” where the ladies will wear very short skirts or dresses and the men will wear loose baggy clothing. This should give everyone at the party a wide array of choices.
One of the more interesting aspects of the swinger lifestyle is the fetishes. Before starting out, you should make sure to get yourself familiar with all the fetishes. Some of the more popular fetishes are blind fucking, foot fetish, leather, rope, and others. These fetishes should definitely be brought up at your first meeting and explained to you, should you choose to explore the swinger dating club. When you have chosen the lifestyle, understand the importance of being familiar with this aspect.
The last aspect of the swinger lifestyle that should be discussed is the attire. To keep the college girl feel, choose to wear sexy lingerie and other outfits. Men can choose to skip this and go with comfortable jeans, a t-shirt and a leather jacket. Make sure that the colors you choose are bright ones so that everyone will be attracted to you. Your attitude will also attract the right people.